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  • Feb. 6th, 2010 at 8:02 PM
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All knowing flist, lend me your wisdom! 

I need to move out of my parents' house and down to York. 

I have a decent, although not huge, monthly income. 

I have all my own furniture and stuff taking up space in the garage. 

Ideally I would like to have my own place.  I probably can't afford this. 

I need a housemate but I do not, yet, have a place to live and I can't really afford to get a place on my own and hope for a housemate to come along.  (But I'm willing to consider it.)

I am looking for any advice you can give as to how to make this move happen. 

Where do I find a housemate without a house?

What should I be allowing for bills? 
(My parents are no help for comparisons as they have a large family home and the most I hope for is a 2 bed terrace!)

What proportion of your income do you spend on rent? (Not being nosy and asking for specifics, we're (mostly) British! A % would be nice though.)

Cookies for anyone who can give any advice!  If I know your address they can be real ones!

Fun day!

  • Feb. 2nd, 2010 at 6:42 PM
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Today didn't start brilliantly as I realised at 9:30am that it was not Wednesday but, in fact, Tuesday.  That did not put me in a good mood.  Nor did Boss being in a mood and getting a small bollocking or two.  But then the computers went down at 3pm and never came back up so we spent the afternoon doing bugger all!  Yay! 

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Still alive!

  • Jan. 28th, 2010 at 7:08 PM
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Got up, went to work, did some shopping at lunch time, worked some more, went home.  There, that about covers it.  Extrapolate backwards and forwards for every weekday until you hear from me otherwise! 

However, yesterday I also had a quick dinner with Dee and went to see St Trinians at the cinema.  Which were both very nice.  We went to Orgasmic, which is on the river off Coney Street, on a colleague's reccomendation for a hot chocolate and found they had a real wood fired pizza oven and proper cracker crust pizzas, and better yet, on Wednesdays it was buy 1 get 1 free!  However, since we'd just had hot chocolates I only managed half my pizza and shoved the rest in my emply bento box and Dee got a doggy bag for hers.  It was equally good for lunch today!  I will totally be going there again at every opportunity. 

St Trinians was also fun, the plot, as always, was merely decorative and Tennant was a nice addition to the cast.  I half feel like watching the first one again coz I like the cool/confident thing that rubs off on me when I watch them.  I'm trying to make the effort with my work clothes now that it's a little warmer.  So far I've mostly just worked towards warm but now it might actually start warming up a bit I'm gonna try and be a little funkier... well, I say funky, I still stick to simple and classic stuff but go in a more Chanel direction... with my own sort of twists... hm, yeah. 

Speaking of Chanel and the associated pearls I lost and broke an earing at work on Tuesday while shifting desks (Oh yeah, moved desks now and causing consternation in the ranks!) and mum took them to the jewelers to see if they could fix them if they were real.  Turns out I'm a terrible jewelery keeper as I keep my earings in overnight and consequently in the shower.  The shampoo had removed all the lustre from the pearls!  Since they couldn't tell and they were basically ruined mum bought me some lovely new ones as a replacement!  Lucky me!

Today was mental, as it has been for a few days, we've got a huge case on atm so I'm busting a gut trying to keep up with everything.  I had to do a really urgent dictation and then email it to two people, one at their home address... only I cocked up and sent it to his work address and he happens to be my boss!  Luckily I could remember the other person's address so I got home and emailed him to ask him to forward his email to my boss.  Hopefully I won't get too bollocked for that as I sorted it as fast as I could and no actual harm will ahve come from it.  However the perfectionist in me is just dying to have one sodding day where I don't cock up in any way! 

I now have a nice relaxing evening planned of may be watching Location and possibly doing some baking after dinner.  I'm thinking 2 dozen red velvet cupcakes! 


A Cautionary Tale

  • Jan. 23rd, 2010 at 9:13 PM
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Quite frequently when cooking a main meal in the oven I'll throw in a baked dessert too, a brown betty, pie or crumble for instance.  Mum does this too, as I'm sure many people do, it's a more efficient use of fuel.  At the minute we're eating a lot of roasted rhubarb while it's in season.  Tonight's menu was lasagna with roasted rhubarb and panna cotta for dessert... only something went wrong.  I don't know what as I didn't cook.  Somehow the rhubarb was placed underneath the lasagna. 

When serving our dessert I noticed distinctly orange swirls going through the juices.  I thought it was odd but never connected the dots until I had my first spoonful and there it was... Lasagna flavoured rhubarb!  ICK!!!!!!  The tomatoey oil that bubbles out had obviously bubbled over and into the rhubarb.  Mum swears she couldn't taste the difference but it nearly made me sick, what a waste of rhubarb!!!


LIFE IS UNFAIR!!!!

  • Jan. 19th, 2010 at 7:10 PM
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I would have to say that on balance today was a good day.  But I reserve the right to have a tantrum or pitch a fit at any point.  Life is so fucking unfair!!!!!!

I'm finally feeling like I'm settled in at work now and then today I was told I have to switch desks with one of the other secretaries because she gets migranes from the flourescent lights.  Now, fair enough, it's a health and safety bollocks.  But I like my desk!  I'm in the corner with a window.  Her desk is in the middle with a tiny section of wall.  I'll be right in the middle of the room, exposed on all sides and the desk will be a mirror so having finally figured out where everything is I'll have to move and try to remember everything is on the other side.  I also won't be able to use the floor to dump files I'm done with on as it blocks the place where people walk.  I was just getting everything sorted out to my liking and settled and then this arsing well happens!  She's only in 2 1/2 fucking days a week!!!!  I'm so pissed off.  I like things as they are, so my OCD tendancies are kicking off big time.  Expect me to be majorly cranky next week when we do this swap!

The other thing that has kicked my arse today is my phone. I may as well have sold my fucking soul!!!  This fucking contract is impossible to break.  I am stuck with it for the whole 24 months.  I can't even alter it to pay less, which I would consider doing until 23 months.  If I could knock it down to £5 I'd happily pay that for 2 years and pay for another contract with someone else and a better phone as well. I'll have one last shot tomorrow and then I'll start working on faking my own death or emmigrating or having myself declared insane and unable to have signed up for a contract coz I was doolally or something!!!!!  I am willing to contemplate just about anythign at this point and I've only had the bloody thing for a month!!!  Don't sign up with T mobile, they'll eat your soul!!!!!!  (And the Samsung Jet is not at all what you think it is.  You don't want that, you want a Blackberry or an iphone.  It does fuck all!!!)

So yeah, a generally alright day spoilt by two pieces of universal fuckwittery!


My First Week!

  • Jan. 15th, 2010 at 9:42 PM
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I've survived my first full week of work!!!!!!  And it culminated with after work drinks for a leaving do.  I feel so employed!  I also feel knackered as a direct consequence of this but hey, I'll go with it.  Not a bad day today by any means.  Mostly got on with admin then pumped out more letters in an hour than I have most days this week!  Won't see my boss again until Tuesday, which I imagine will be a terrible day as he'll have four days worth of dictations for me (he works weekends, the arse!) but I shall just deal with that as we go I guess. 

I have been told that he likes me, which is great as that means he'll make things easier for me.  He's a bit of a secretary killer.  (Not literally obviously but some fee earners gain this reputation coz they drive them off so frequently)  I freely admit this is not an easy job and he doesn't make it especially easy on anyone even when he apparently likes them as in my case.  If I had options I would be looking at them but it took me a year and a half to get this job, for now I'm sticking with it!  It's not what I want to do long term but it's bloody good money and it's a job.  I just have to decide what options I want to be looking for and get on with that.  I feel a bit bad that I am planning on leaving him fairly swiftly but I am not a lifer.  I'm better than that. I didn't spend 4 years at uni to do grunt work for the next ten years!  But it's easier said than done so for now I'm just seeing how it goes.   And that is that.  Good night all!

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Chewits are dangerous!

  • Jan. 13th, 2010 at 10:47 PM
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I finally got to see New Moon tonight.  Combinations of business and no money meant I didn't see it before but it finally arrived in Thirsk this week and I went to laugh.  I love it.  Really, I do, but it is so hilariously bad!!!  You try explaining the plot to someone who hasn't read the books and try not to sound like a mad man!  And "the vamipres sparkle" is one of the saner things! 

But on the subject of chewits, which I was eating while watching this, DON'T!!!  I've cracked off half a molar!  It's rather irritating and a tiny bit painful. 

Work is fine but tiring, boss still unpredictable and today was an off day.  I did so well yesterday coz he was working from home.  Of course he comes in today and dumps more than a dozen URGENT dictations on my desk the buggers off at lunch time!  I need to ask him so many questions and I just hate not being able to do things well.  But I can't coz I don't know!!!!!  The frustration continues. 

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My cola is frozen!

  • Jan. 8th, 2010 at 6:12 PM
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I just brought in a bottle of diet coke from the garage and it is frozen!  I went to pour it into a glass and there were lumps!  It's a cola slushie!  I'm getting a bit fed up of this weather.  It's very pretty but I'm fed up of having wet feet and going through 3 pairs of socks a day, I'm fed up of having cold ears and a cold nose and not being able to feel my toes and I am fed up of waking up in the morning and getting out of bed to enjoy my frostbite inducing shower.  That being said I am quite enjoying leaving work at 4pm.  It's been a nice, gentler start to my working life.  Like I can gear up slowly to the whole 9-5 thing.  Had to work through lunch today to make it up though, only ran out to get a sandwich and then gulped it down. 

Bento next week methinks.  Microwavable ones though, it's no weather for cold!  Or may be soup.  Some Spicy Butternut Squash Soup may be, that's nice and warming.  The chilli just heats you up nicely but without actually being too hot and spicy so that'd be perfect for this weather!  I'll have to put some thought into bentoing this weekend.  Work on the freezer stash a bit.  If I get some rice done and portioned up and may be some sticky meatballs... hm, a plan forms! 

Today was a much better day at work though, I wasn't quite so overwhelmed.  Office gossip says that my boss likes me so shouldn't give me too hard a time like he does with ppl he doesn't like.  I didn't get everything I had hoped to do done as it's still such a labourious process even finding the file I'm working on.  My boss was supposed to come in this morning but then didn't and then he was supposed to ring me to see if I needed help but he didn't.  Ho hum, I did my best and just cracked on with it.  I'll find out on Monday how much of a diva he is.  Rumor says he can be difficult but that if he likes you you're better off. I need to know how to handle him.  If I can manage him effectivelythen the job isn't hard, it's just a matter of wrangling the boss.  Or so says the secretarial staff anyway!  All hints from them are gratefully accepted.  Alas, the woman who actually used to do my job leaves next Friday so I only have a few more days to absorb her knowledge as she only works Thursday/Friday. 

Last night I did have a meltdown as it all finally caught up with me.  I cried all over mum and produced more snot than I have ever seen a human being produce!  But mum just let me cry and heard me otu then gave me a pep talk.  I  was all "I don't want to be a grown up, what if I'm crap, I don't want to be crap and the filing is awful! What if everyone hates me?  What if I can't do it and get fired?  I don't wanna, waaaaaaaaaaaah!!!!!"  And mum was like "Chill, it's your second day! You'll be fab once you find your feet.  Just try not to bring all the stress home with you, it's just a job."  So yeah. It's all happened rather fast and I was probably overdue for a good long cry anyway.  Snivelling wreck has rarely been a more appropriate phrase! 

Now for the weekend, which will involve a lot of sleeping, sledging and just may be some shopping too!

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Second Day

  • Jan. 7th, 2010 at 6:48 PM
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Well, today was worse than yesterday.  There is no handover period I've just to get on with it and work it out as I go.  He's had 2 secretaries recently, one lasting 8 weeks, one lasting 6 weeks.  I'm not certain there is a filing system anymore really but he seems to think there is.  I had a little moment after tackling the filing this morning coz I just hadn't got a clue.  Shove it in the drawer and hope seems to be a good approximation of the system.  And drawers full of old files but the current file that I want to file stuff on is nowhere to be seen!

Then this afternoon as we closed early again the post was going early too.  Just before this I went and picked up the files for some urgent dictations.  I asked how urgent they were and if they needed to go this afternoon or if they could go tomorrow and he said they were fine to wait.  15 minutes later he calls up to ask if I had done the dictations yet because they needed to go tonight... um, nope, halfway through one actually.  He then left and I had to get them signed by another solicitor.  Then I had to find a postbox for them on my way to the station as we'd missed the post.  But I managed. 

The train in this morning was delayed by about 10 minutes and the same on the way back and it looks like they've cancelled the trains entirely tomorrow... so I may not be going to work.  They've been very understanding about people leaving early or working from other offices or just getting snowed in so should the worst happen I don't forsee any problems, it's just annoying.  When I do something I want to do it perfectly.  I'm a perfectionist!  So all in all this job is proving quite stressful so far.   

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First Day

  • Jan. 6th, 2010 at 6:42 PM
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Well I think it went alright as far as first days go.  We got sent home early because of the snow!  I made it there with plenty of time to spare this morning though.  However, Starbucks stops could prove expensive!  Then a whole bunch of information and paperwork was thrown at me.  I had a whistlestop tour of the office and was generally shown about then an introduction to the office systems and then an IT induction.  Half of what was said will have to be told to me again I'm sure but so far the systems are pretty similar to what I'm used to working with so it's generally pretty simple.  Just getting used to the nuances of the system. 

It'll take me a while to find my feet I think.  The person they hired instead of me was crap.  I spent a good hour this afternoon going through my desk and trying to figure out what had been done, what was still to do and what on earth some of it was!  The people in my office were very helpful though so that's a plus.  There's a young trainee solicitor and two other secretaries in the office.  One, the trainee solicitor, I think I'll get on with rather well, one could be lovely or could be mad as a hatter but lovely with it and I wasn't with the other one long enough to form an opinion yet as she only works the first half of every week and left at lunchtime.  However, she apparently gets migranes from the flourescent lights so we'll have to turn off the tights and use desk lamps to work... yeah, that makes sense!  So I may hold that against her for a bit, we'll see! 

So far the work I've done seems interesting but I'm going to have to be an annoyance and get them to get me a wrist support thing for my keyboard and mouse.  Haven't quite got everything set up as I like it yet but today I rather hit the ground running so I haven't had time yet.  Was getting a bit achey in the shoulders but I haven't done much typing for months now so it'll take me a while to get back into the swing of it.  I may take in a spider plant to put on my windowsill and make the place my own a bit.  We'll see how it goes!

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OMG!!!!!

  • Jan. 4th, 2010 at 3:14 PM
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I got a job!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I start on wednesday. I'm ever so slightly in shock. Finallyn after 18 months of unemployment I have got a job! And it's a good job for good money. YAY!!!!!!!

What a way to start the year!

  • Jan. 2nd, 2010 at 4:09 PM
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Thanks RTD!  Now go die in a hole! 

I don't want to talk about it.  Instead I made cheesecake!  Yay for cheesecake! 

Ahem. 

I thought it might be a good idea to put down in writing my tentative New Years Resolutions.  Just so I have some actual proof I made them! 

1.  I am going to get a job and move out this year.  It doesn't have to be a good job, it doesn't even have to be one job.  If I have to temp I will but this has gone on long enough.  Hopefully I'll get the job I have an interview for on Monday but if I don't then enough hoping for some kind of panacea I just give up and take what I can get. 

2.  Stop letting myself go.  I'm not talking weight here, I'm fairly content in that area, not that losing half a stone by magic wouldn't be nice but I choose cheesecake!  I'm talking general appearance.  I used to be pretty high maintenance.  I had my beauty routines and treatments and I did them automatically.  Hair cut, bikini wax, eyebrow wax, faicials, mani-pedi, microdermabrastion etc etc.  But then I moved home and, well I've rusticated!  I now spend most days with my hair clipped back while wet wearing jeans and a tshirt if I'm lucky!  Well, no more.  I will not go back to the previous levels of expenditure but I will start to do it myself again.  This is one area of my life I do have control over and it is time to stop wallowing and take that control back! 

Simple but necessary and achievable.  Sorted!

Happy New Year!!!

  • Jan. 1st, 2010 at 1:12 AM
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Yay, I survived!!!

I have had some attrocious new years.  I have very nearly died on a few of them.  So I stay home and sit in my jammies drinking bubbles.  It's a lot safer and I cry less. 

I had a minor freak out earlier today (yesterday now actually) when I found out that my quiet night in with jammies had become party food and Robyn and Alex coming to ours but once I got my control freak/ perfectionist urges under control during a walk in the snow and calmed down to embrace this modicum of interaction and celebration it was ok.  We'll be eating part food for a week, yay vol au vonts!!!! 

But I had a good time.  Mum and I polished off a bottle of prosseco durning the evening then we had champagne for midnight and it was good.  I've even started a new sewing project.  Cupcake shaped egg cozies for my dippy eggs!!!  So 2010 is off to a good start with a new project underway and a lot of hope for the future.  Hopefully dad won't have jinxed me out of this legal sec. position I'm interviewing for and I'll be employed by the end of January. 

2009 was a tough year, a really really shit year if I'm honest.  I've been out of work for the entire year, Robyn had cancer for crying out loud!  And I learned this evening that my cousin is no longer pregnant having miscarried at 7 weeks.  2010 can only be better in comparison so here's to the new year.  May it be peaceful, prosperous and successful for you all. 

Love you all!!  Anna xxx

I may explode

  • Dec. 28th, 2009 at 9:18 PM
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I should not have had that sneaky pizza before dinner.  Despite the fact that it was only a small one and I enjoyed it so very much pizza + meatballs = exploding Anna.  I may never move again!  But the pizza was so verry very good!  I haven't had takeout in months!!!  I was in town and there was the pizza shop and it seemed like a great idea!  One plus point is that now I have a sample of the most delicious garlic sauce in existence and can try to work out what's in it!!  Just as soon as I can move again...


My White Christmas!

  • Dec. 26th, 2009 at 10:50 PM
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Yep, I made the dog a santa suit!  He HATES it! 

Merry Christmas!

  • Dec. 26th, 2009 at 5:16 PM
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Slightly belated but I just discovered that while my mobile has enough signal to receive a txt it won't send them for me.  So all your christmas greetings are stuck in the bloody thing!  I haven't forgotten you dear members of the flist but my phone won't cooperate.  So MERRY CHRISTMAS!!!!!  I hope you all had a good one and did no permanent damage to family members! 

Everone liked the gifts I gave them so that's a relief!  Anyone who was barred from AnnaintheKitchen can now return and anything you particularly liked can be recreated from the recipes there.  Except for the truffles, I'm never sodding making truffles again!!!!  I'm so glad I can finally talk about what I've been doing!  I have really grafted this year.  Next year it's gift certificates!

I also made homemade stuff as well as edible homemade stuff for everyone.  Sam and Robyn got aprons with their names on, mum got a little onigiri toy and an umbrella food cover with appliqued stuff, dad got a crappy fleece scarf as it's really really hard to find a homemade craft that is manly, and Frodo got a santa suit that he HATES!!!  But I'm the human, I'm in charge and he bloody well wore it!!!

I slept the day away as for the last week I've been up until the wee small hours sewing frantically and then getting up bright and early to get on with tidying and cooking!  Now I'm going to play with my prezzies!  Thanks for the book Sam!  I've already read a lot of it while the rellies whittered on in the background!


Hallelujah Chorus

  • Dec. 24th, 2009 at 10:52 AM
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Bing Crosby

  • Dec. 24th, 2009 at 2:41 AM
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We are hoping and praying for a Bing Crosby here.  That is the code we have developed for if we actually use the words out loud or in type then we are cursed and it will never happen. 

I can't believe the snow is still here, we have never ever had snow last this long and we've never had snow this good!  I was worried today as the hoar frost had vanished and I could go outside without my gloves on.  We made it into plus figures again!!  But then night fell and the temperature plummeted and we've just had another inch of snow so all is well again.  Except I won't be driving across to take gran to the hairdresser for her pre-christmas do as I'll surely die!  Last minute xmas shopping for veg and stuff may not happen either but as we have 3 tons of brussel sprouts I'm not worried.  (Love the brussels!!!)  

This cold snap is also rather convenient for food storage as certain rooms of the house are actually colder than the fridge and we're freezing ice cubes in the garden.  I had a snow latte the other day: coffee, fresh snowfall, milk and sugar to taste, yum!  Dad will have to clear the snow off the barbie to get the turkey in and I imagine he won't be standing outside supervising it to avoid the rellies like normal, he'll freeze!!

I've got all my presents wrapped except Robyn's as I'm still working on it.  It may be being carried downstairs with my on christmas day!! I've done all of my last minute cooking and wrapping, I'm very happy with my projects.  And speaking of last minute, anyone who doesn't have a cake or a pudding you can still make one if you want!  Check out AnnaintheKitchen for recipes for both.  You'll have to be cunning about the cake, and may be forgo proper icing, but it can be done!
 
I'm off to bed, haven't felt my feet or nose in hours now so in need of huddling!  It's -5*C outside!

Life and Snow

  • Dec. 21st, 2009 at 10:10 PM
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Right, big news first.  I went for a job interview the other month and it was down to me an this other woman. I didn't get the job.  She just handed in her notice.  I have a second interview on January 4th to make sure I'm what they want and they're what I want and then hopefully I'll get this job!!!!  As far as I'm aware I'm the only person they're seeing as they liked me so much last time!!!!  YAY!!!!! If that doesn't work out, although there is very little reason why it shouldn't but I've leanrt over the last 18 months not to get my hopes up, I am going to be volunteering for the Citizens Advice Bureau, I'll start my training in the new year and I've signed up for a whole bunch of other volunteering opportunities such as an Intergenerational healthy eating thing with Help The Aged and some other thing that's all youth based skills workshops plaiing an event or something but it'll get be a huge range of training and workshops on things like media, PR, business plans etc.  Due to the fuckwittery of the Jobcentre I could have been doing these things for the last 6 months but noone told me about them and I should also have been going to monthly meetings but I fell down some paperwork black hole and am now nearly out of time on a bunch of things.  I get outsourced to a private company at the end of the month!

In general news I'm so over the snow... well, sometimes I am.  It's currently -6*C outside. I haven't felt my toes in days.  But then I go for a walk with the dog and he's frollicking about and it's all so beautiful, deep deep powder everywhere, all the roads are iced over so it's just a blanket of white across everything and I love it again.  Then I need to go and do something outside of the village and I need to get dad to drive me as I choose life.  I could never handle my car in these conditions, it's madness!  But it's the week before christmas and so much stuff I needed to do got buggered about because of the snow, it's a right pain!  But I did get Sam's Christmas present sent off today.  Bloody hell, post office!  I'll take out a mortgage next time!!!  You're all getting scarves next year, very light to post scarves. 

I have been crafting and cooking my little heart out recently.  7 hours of sewing last night!!!  I watched 3 movies... well listened while I concentrated on stitches, but still, a bloody long time.  My eyes had stopped focusing on distances by the end!!!  I finally made Christmas cards today... they're very very "Kirstie Special" (Loved Kirstie's Homemade Christmas so much and it gave R and I this new phrase.  ie looks like it was made by a drunk 5 year old but it was made with love!)  Totally forgot to post the damned things but hey ho, tomorrow will have to do!  I've also been cooking like a demon trying to get all the Christmas stuff on the go. 

Right, off to update AnnaintheKitchen as I've got some yummy recipes to go up.  Sam, Robyn you're both still barred til after xmas, sorry!!!

ETA: Ianto the fish has passed on.  He'd been sick for a few days and goldfish don't usually recover from sick so it was expected but still a little sad.  Poor goldfish! Poor Manolo, alone for Christmas!

SNOW!!!

  • Dec. 18th, 2009 at 1:29 PM
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It's great! But I took a snowball to the face and now am an inside puppy.  We've got a good 4-6 inches and we've been snowed into the village all morning.  We're going to try and make a break for it and go to the supermarket as I need sugar and spice and all things nice!  There's currently a debate as to whether to leave the puppy home alone and risk leaving him an orphan or if we leave someone at home with him.  Since the bin men finally made it into the village we think we're probably ok to leave him alone. 

It's fantastic powder snow though so we can't make a snowman out of it.  I'm just itching for some skis and a hill!!  The theory is that the sun'll melt it a bit then it'll freeze again and more will come down overnight.  So more ice to come.  So glad I'm not going to be the one trying to drive in this!

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